Summer is here 2017

For those of you who have checked in over the last year – it has been hit and miss for staying in touch. It’s been a hectic 12 months with doctor appts and this website was acting up, so blogs got behind!

We really need prayers for Trina (and us). The car accident last year has caused her many issues. Not only the fact that after no seizures for close to 7 years – they began right after the accident DAILY. We’ve had 1 to 7 a day for 9 months with many doctor visits trying to get them to stop, without success yet. In addition, the little balance she had is gone which makes her care double the work. It is very difficult to keep her held up to do her hair, get her dressed, etc. as she falls over now. Plus, we are limited as to what we can do and where we can go because of the seizures (her screaming too) and the added challenges without any balance to work with.

Of course we still have joy and peace and make the best of every day – that is how we roll (LOL), but life has more challenge to it and we had to adjust our days accordingly. We are home most of the time, but do have to travel to SF at least every 4 months for check ups and med changes to address the seizures. The balance cannot be recovered unless a literal miracle comes.

Trina’s “Staddio” – my husband Steve that is now dad because he adopted her has had health issues too (both from the car accident and now his liver), so most of our time is making the best health for all. I, too, struggled with issues from the car accident but the emotional strain of all 3 of us (as I handle all of the details) was stressing me out and I had an abuse occur during treatment that just forced me out of my own case. Justice doesn’t always prevail, but my focus had to be on Steve and Trina, so mom is healing at home with some inner peace spiritual work! One day at a time.

Last prayer request. We need a handicapped van so badly and they are so expensive. If anyone hears of one for sale near Redding, CA that is reasonable in price and in good condition, please let us know. With Trina’s new limitations (and ours) – we must be able to use an automatic lift where her wheelchair goes right into the car and we GO. Right now we have to tear down her entire wheelchair and put it back together each time we go on an errand. Time consuming and physical! Also in winter we all get very wet. Any ideas welcomed.

Hope all of you are doing well. We all have issues and so sorry to bore you with ours. A special thanks to those to have always shown us you care and check in.

God Bless from our family to yours…

2017’s START

Hello everyone and Happy New Year.

20151125_144815It’s been very difficult, obviously, to catch up on Trina’s site. Please forgive me – just so much going on. I left off describing that the end of 2016 was tough due to a car accident back in July. As a result, Trina has been suffering with seizures daily – and still is. Steve and I both also have been in physical therapy and chiropractic / massage therapies ever since. This has made our daily routine and care for Trina more complicated for us, so days are full. However, we remain joyful and hopeful that we will get back to where we left off…one day at a time.

Trina continues to amaze us with her beautiful smiles and amazing personality for someone who is in her condition. We’ve had to stay at the house most of the time (except for Dr appts) and so no special adventures that we used to do, but we have found a way to make that work – just focusing on a routine that is healthy for all.

We tried to get Trina an adult car seat but it was next to impossible to get her in the car into it, so sadly that has to be returned. One day we hope to have a handicapped van where we can put her in just by electronically lifting the whole wheelchair in and go! If any of you ever find a great deal on one – please let us know.

So not much excitement or news to share, but wanted to connect somehow for those of you who do check in periodically.

God Bless and talk again soon.

Hello Fall !

Well, Trina’s mom – me – is doing better with the stomach issues. My back is still in pain from the car accident (and my husband’s neck is a mess from the accident, too) , but Trina had her MRI completed with good and bad news. The good news is that her back and neck seem to be OK, but with the brain damage the MRI of the brain was a little scary. And, the scariest thing is that ever since the car accident she has been having small seizures every day. Prior to that we’d have maybe one or two a year – now every day! So, more doctor appts to see if that is the result of the jolt in the accident or ??? But, it needs to be understood and treated soon. We are all in Physical Therapy, Chiropractic, and massage weekly and hopefully this will expedite us all getting back to normal feeling good. Of course for Trina we just want the seizures to stop.

My husband Steve and I were discussing Trina and our time with her and our care for her the other night and even after 5 1/2 years of caring for her, we both feel blessed. No matter how hard it is at times, she exudes pure innocence, which is so awesome to be able to witness and experience. Her smiles also just cut through to your heart. As a mom, I miss the old Trina so much, but for whatever reason that girl had internal demons she couldn’t fight and now she is free from all of that. Almost all day and night we get smiles. Yes, some other sounds and screaming and those are the tough times but overall the faces are so cute and innocent that it is all JOY.

Blessings to all of you and again, thanks for checking in.


Summer 2016

20151123_145156Thanks for checking in.

It’s been a wild summer. Some good news and some continuing issues. What is awesome is that Trina’s infection in her feeding tube finally got healed. Yay! However, then she started having difficulties with her bowels. I will spare you the details, but that, too, is now better.

Therefore, here we are 2/3 through summer and get to enjoy it. So, almost everyday we do pool therapy for Trina. And, we take her to the coast and to the beach in her beach wheelchair. Getting back to these type of activities is wonderful after so many months of struggling with health issues.

Even Trina’s screaming has just recently improved because we started usually the holistic approach by using herbs put together by a company called “Rooted Moon.” The pharma prescribed by the doctors was not working!

Personally, we are taking each day with appreciation for the good days and the blessings. Tough days can so quickly beat you down that we have chosen to keep our focus on our faith and our blessings to stay strong and happy!

The big things we are working on right now is a new hospital bed and a better chair for Trina. Medi-cal only allows a very cheap-end bed where Trina needs a custom bed due to her flailing (which is a continued difficulty day and night). Her doctor wrote her a “custom prescription” but apparently Medi-cal says no. We are looking into other alternatives to find the right bed within the community or refurbished or ??? Open to ideas everyone.

At any rate, hope everyone is having a good summer. Thanks again for caring and checking in. One day at a time.

Blessings to all of you from Trina’s mom and family.

Better and better

Well, for many months I have written about a lot of trials with Trina’s health. Now I have a lot of praise reports:

1) Trina’s infection is GONE. YAY.
2) Steve, Trina’s step-dad adopted her (Katrina Leigh Harp).
3) I also changed my name so that we are all just The HARPS 🙂 I had kept my maiden name for many years and it was time to simplify.
4) It’s been a beautiful start of Spring with a lot of sunshine, so we’ve started again on our daily walks on the River Trail and Bike rides too. Love it.
5) We still go to the coast like once a month and can’t wait to take Trina to the beach again soon.
6) I have one grand baby, now 15 months old, with another on the way from my other daughter. SO, Trina is an Auntie, soon to be again. Vada is amazed by Auntie Trina…Like why is she an adult and yet I am bigger than her and can do more than her? In a few years she will “get it” more. For now, it is cute and endearing to watch. This makes for a very busy household at Nana’s house. Thank God I have a lot of natural energy to handle it all. We are already ready for the next grand baby. Trina is surrounded with more family – yay.

So many blessings. So much love. So much to be thankful for. When I look at Trina’s room that so many helped with and even the other blessings that came through my parents that enabled us to handicap our home and add a therapy pool with ADA lift – I cannot look far without feeling so humbled by it all. For those that helped us in our time of need – you are forever in our hearts and to my parents in Heaven – hope you are smiling for all that you blessed us with.

One day at a time. Press through the tough stuff and yet embrace it, make your lemonade, and then give thanks daily for all the love :)20151123_145156